How to Use a Vibrating Cock Ring

Though many men might buy a vibrating cock ring, very few consider how to best use it to give their female partner the best possible experience with it.

Let’s start with why it vibrates in the first place. Although it does impart some vibration into the erect penis directly – which feels nice for both parties – the real strength of the vibrating cock ring is in the fact that a clitoral vibrator is attached to the man’s penis. The most frustrating thing that men do is press all the way inside of their lady, pressing the vibe against the woman’s clitoris, and then … they pull it away! Just as it starts to feel good rubbing up against the clitoris, he moves it away! Then against the clitoris again … then he pulls it away again!

A better way is to press inside of her until the vibe is against her clitoris, and then stay there! Now, allow her to move around on it herself a bit. She’ll do that naturally if given an opportunity. The simple secrets to success, consequently, are just these:

  • Don’t pull it away. Stay where you are!
  • Give her some control of the situation.

Speaking of control, allowing her to be on top gives her even more control over the sensations she receives from the vibe, combined with the nice feeling of having you inside her. Now do the most unexpected thing of all:ask her for some guidance. Let her be in full control of you and the situation for a moment, giving her a chance to direct you like a big, cuddly, hot and sexy sex toy for a while. This will lead to some satisfying results.

But some women don’t like to be in control at all. For those ladies, it is up to the guy to watch his partner to confirm he’s stimulating her the way she likes. Watch for her reactions and allow the vibe to linger over her clitoris for a while. Keep the force light; a little pressure goes a long way. Move the vibe gently up and down, back and forth, or in a circular motion, keeping it in contact with the clitoral region. Watch carefully and take in the reactions, and perhaps engage her with some questions spoken softly to her. Combine that with nibbling and kissing at her neck or ears, and it will produce some nice results!