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Great Inventions - For Adults Only!
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Great Inventions - For Adults Only! Sex inventions! You saw it here first! The following are some of my most brilliant ideas, mostly the products of having awakened from a fitful night's sleep, woozy and half-conscious, yet with the entire idea crystallized in my mind, complete in all its brilliance! (That is, I truly astonish myself sometimes...)

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The Endorphin Levels in BDSM - a short primer on sending a submissive into hyperspace
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

The Endorphin Levels in BDSM: Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the "high" is all about and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone topping another so that they may successfully send their bottom into a very deep endorphin stupor! (Also known as leaving them in a big puddle of quivering ecstasy!)

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Sex Games
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Ahhh, sex games! I love the idea of there being more giggles and fun going along with your sex—in the bedroom and even all over the house... (heck, even outside!) Sex doesn't always have to be about the wildly horned-out and spontaneous passions coming strictly from merely having the "urge." That "urge" can be nurtured by playing various very cool and even silly sex games! Also, nobody can be forced to grow and expand - it happens all by itself when the freedom to play is exercised liberally. So take advantage of that simple fact and take your sex life to the next level with playfulness, giggles, and loving laughter!

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Solving the "Problem-Solving" Problem
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Solving the "Problem-Solving" Problem: Problem solving and Sex! About fifteen years ago, the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Gray attempted to popularize the concept that males and females were fundamentally different in their communication styles – as fundamentally different as if they were from separate planets. While I contend that both sexes are TRULY from the very same planet, there is a grain of truth that – for either sex – the role of problem solver is sometimes taken up – to the point of pushing aside all other ways of being involved in the relationship. How do we solve THAT problem?

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De Facto Dominants
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

De Facto Dominants: Submissives and masochists in BDSM are just as worthy to be treated with respect as are dominants and sadists. There are no de-facto Dominants. Yet, in the 'scene' – at parties and even on-line – dominants often expect all submissives to act as if they had actually already accepted them as their dominants. Submissives and dominants – let's stop this nonsense now.

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BDSM - An Acronym of Acronyms
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

BDSM - An Acronym of  Acronyms: BDSM = Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism. Three acronyms in one, symbolizing how closely related the three really are. Read on to discover what is really going on with this "B/D-S/M" thing!

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Men and Their Butts
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Men and Their Butts: Anal Sex???? For a GUY??? Well, keep in mind, a person's "Sexual Preference" is defined by who they are attracted to, not by which nerve endings they stimulate. So, men – relax that butt! It is time for men to grow in a similar way many men quite often press women to!

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Hot, Ergonomic Sex - For Free!
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Ergonomic sex? Well, the long and the short of it is that the human body simply isn't designed for any position beyond "doggie style!" Not for any length of time with comfort, at least. Over the years, several products and approaches have emerged to help solve this problem. This article is written in the hopes you might make love as long as is humanly possible!

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Floggers Versus Paddles, Crops & Slappers
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Floggers Versus Paddles, Crops & Slappers: I often wonder why people try to use a flogger on people's butts. It is very hard to do. Especially if the person is standing. That's BDSM the hard way!
I say, flog backs. Paddle bottoms. Use slappers, crops and other implements everywhere else. Everyone concerned will be saying, "How can we lose with the system we use!"

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Female Dominants in a Male Dominated World
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Female Dominants in a Male Dominated World: Women have a naturally dominant side. (This comes as a surprise to a few people!) Problem is, the only side many females ever explore in their sexual life is their submissive side. This little blog is hopefully a first step in the right direction towards helping women gain the confidence and support they might need to explore their natural dominant side!

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