Many people ask us how to prolong their sexual experience. As you may guess from the title, I'm going to talk about cuddling, but perhaps take it just a little bit further than you expect. Cuddling is the key, folks!
Lots of women will tell you right off that they simply love cuddling. I have come to believe that most men do not know of the potential of cuddling in prolonging their own sexual enjoyment. Any woman you ask will support what I'm about to explain here.
Cuddles rule. They can induce a very wonderful "floaty" sensation that is very sensual and very dreamy. Men may need to practice to find this place, but it is like a drug-induced high when done right! Extreme Bliss! And, it is extremely sensual.
Perhaps as a consequence, cuddles often lead to "other things". Some pretty heated "other things", in fact! The more intense the cuddling, the more heated the "other things" become. So as foreplay, cuddling is hard to beat for its surprising build.
But cuddles also make for an incredible "between meal snack" that should not be underestimated in its potency! That is, as a break from a more physical session, perhaps before an ejaculation can occur in order to extend your time together, dive into a cuddling session. Now, keep in mind that cuddling is soft and light to the touch, warm and fuzzy-feeling, gentle and loving, with light caresses and smooth stroking of your partner's body just about everywhere (though not with an intention to seduce). It is this very "being in the present" quality with it that allows cuddling to evolve into something so profound. At the other end of this, a natural build will occur that will lead to fireworks.
Cuddling includes just lying next to each other holding hands, caressing and rubbing your partner's knees and forelegs, lying with your head nestled between the other's legs, lying with your head on your partner's tummy, "spooning" lovingly for a while, clasping your fingers together, kissing at the other's knuckles, blowing their neck, nibbling at their ear, biting at their shoulder. Cuddling includes occasional kissing, with light kisses at the lips, at the eyebrows, at the forehead. It includes gently rubbing your nose into the skin of your partner at various areas not normally considered part of having sex. It includes gentle tickling with one's fingers or fingernails on sensitive areas like the neck, the back, the backs of the thighs, and very lightly on the soles of the feet. It includes feeling your partner's breath against your skin. As an interlude between hotter sexual activities, it includes having the quiet, "centering" time to really feel how filled with passion you have become. Focus this passionate energy in a gentle way, and the contrast will build and build till it grows to blow both of your minds.
That is where the "marathon challenge" comes in.
See how long you can keep a cuddling session going without letting it "get loose". Go ahead and time yourselves. I maintain that the longer you can keep this cuddling session going, the more amazing things will become once it breaks loose into "other things." Because the hotter it is when things eventually "explode" into "other things", the more intense it will be, and sometimes this also means the longer it will last.
Sound worth the effort? Try it! I think you'll like it!
I rest my case.