Articles and Blogs


Cunnilingus - How to Perform An Oral Exam That Can Give Her Great Pleasure!

Tuesday July 20, 2010

How is cunnilingus done RIGHT? Well, men and Women are different! Cunnilingus is not Fellatio, not by a long shot! What is it one should do differently to be effective?

I think that, when it comes to oral sex, Men do to Women what they would like done to themselves, and Women do to Men what they would like done to themselves in a similar vein. In this department, a little knowledge can go a long way!

The top five "issues" women have about men's approach follow. (A companion article now also exists on Fellatio).

  1. Teeth! Watch out about scraping. (Beards can be too abrasive for some of the sensitive skin areas there as well, so consider shaving beforehand, or at least checking with your lady whether your face "passes" their approval!)

  2. Be Gentle! Most men move too roughly. Gentle is the rule!

  3. Ask about the clit - many women are simply too sensitive to withstand much attention directly on the tip of their clitoris. The hood is just fine! Hood Good. Clit Bad!

  4. Fingernails! If using fingers along with mouth and tongue, please have them trimmed, or wear a latex (or non-latex) glove—or wear a finger cot! (Finger cots are like tiny little condoms just for the fingers.) In short, avoid abrasion – and be certain there is adequate lubrication. That is very delicate skin down there!

  5. The whole enchilada! The clitoris is not the only game in town - pay lots of attention to the rest of the areas. The labia and surrounding regions, the inner thighs, the perineum (the area between the vagina and the anus), and up to several inches above the clitoral region are all very sensitive.

  6. BONUS! The most sensitive area for most women inside of their vagina is in the first inch and a half, so a tongue or fingers inserted just that far, wriggled or moved in a jabbing motion is generally very, very pleasurable! *

Always ask a few questions before and afterwards. (Not as many during - though you can indicate that a little "coaching" is ok by you!) Say a few nice things now and then - many women are pretty self conscious about themselves and it really helps to share a few compliments and share your own pleasure in "pleasuring" her. Be sincere, of course!

I think these few guidelines should help amp-up any partner's skills (even if woman-to-woman), even though I have emphasized man-to-woman in this short blog. Communication is very important, so do it! I rest my case.

* * *

* David's comment to the above was, "So, if you get all six of these points down, then you'll have cunnilingus licked?"

Uh, yes, that's right, David!

Terry

Category:


Commenting is closed for this article.