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How to use a Vibrating Cock Ring

Tuesday July 20, 2010

Though many men might buy a vibrating cock ring like one of the Screaming-O lines or another variety, very few consider how to best use it to give their female partner the best possible experience with it. Here are a couple of tips:

Let's start with why it vibrates in the first place. Although it does impart some vibration into the erect penis directly, which feels nice for both parties, the real strength of the vibrating cock ring is in the fact that a clitoral vibe is actually attached to the man's penis. So, the most frustrating thing that men do is press all the way inside of their lady, pressing the vibe part against the woman's clitoris, and then … they pull it away!!! Just as it starts to feel good rubbing up against the clitoris, he moves it away!!! Then against the clitoris again … then he pulls it away again!!!!

Epic Fail… (!)

Here's how to do it:

Press inside of her till the vibe is against her clitoris, feeling very nice for both of you! Stay there! Now, allow her to move around on it herself a bit. Don't worry, she'll do that quite naturally—if given an opportunity. The simple secrets to success, consequently, are just these:

  • Don't pull it away! Stay where you are!
  • Give her some control of the situation!

While we're on that subject, keep in mind that allowing her to be on-top gives her even more control over the sensations she is receiving from the vibe, combined with the nice feeling of having you inside her! Now do the most unexpected thing of all - ask her for some guidance. Let her be in full control of you and the situation for a moment, giving her a chance to direct you like a big, cuddly, hot and sexy sex toy for a while! Do you think this will lead to some satisfying results? It just might!

But some girls don't like to be in control at all, and are the submissive type. For those folks, it is up to the guy to "do the right thing." Watch for the reactions and allow the vibe to linger over her clitoris for a while. Watch out not to press too hard - a little pressure goes a long way. Mere contact is all that is usually necessary. Move the vibe gently up and down, back and forth, and in a circular motion keeping it in contact with the clitoral region. Watch carefully and take in the reactions, and perhaps engage her with some questions spoken softly to her, perhaps even whispered in her ear. Combine this activity with nibbling at her neck or ears, kissing, etc. and it will probably produce some nice results!

Payback will be very nice, I can guarantee you!

So, give these suggestions a worthy try next time you try out a vibrating cock ring. These methods I describe were suggested to me by women who I interviewed about this, so I can assure you this information is solid, well documented, and laboratory tested! How can we lose with the system we use! I rest my case.

Terry

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