Ahhh, sex games! I love the idea of there being more giggles and fun going along with your sex—in the bedroom and even all over the house (…heck, why not outside!) Sex doesn't always have to be about the wildly horned-out and spontaneous passions coming only from having the "urge." That "urge" can be nurtured by playing various very cool and even silly sex games! You can certainly make some up yourselves, but there are also many on the market that are lots of fun to play.
The key to seeing the idea behind this "sex games" thing is to note that, for the entire time, sexual tension will be present—and that very nice sexual tension will be growing and building as you play the game! It is that building up of sexual tension that is surely guaranteed to explode into some spontaneous passion and some very, very hot sex, and that is what makes playing these innocent seeming little sex games so potent and ultimately rewarding!
Board games, for instance. Every throw of the dice builds on the sexual tension as you move around the board, and by the time you get to the end—IF you get to the end!—you both will be very well primed and ready for some action!
Card games are also a lot of fun, and there are many styles of game-play available. Likewise with "dice" sets and "spin the spinner" types. For a nice assortment of these, Kheper Games' "4 Play" is a blast! And for a new twist, the "Texxxt Message Seductions" – also by Kheper Games – is definitely a very promising idea! My favorite game title has to be "The Game Made Me Do It!" – another winner from Kheper. Be sure to check out all of the games we have online (and there are even more to see in our stores!)
Another favorite of mine adding to your daily dose of playfulness are the "coupon books" that you hand your lover to "redeem" at any given time of the day (found online in Frisky's Just for Fun books section). There are X-rated versions, as well as several that simply build-up the "romance factor."
Beyond the formal games one can add to their game collection, there are several you can play that are derived from your shared fantasies! Shared fantasies?? Well, yes, I'm talking about those which come from the two of you each making and sharing a list of your own personal, wicked, and perhaps a little bit taboo and kinky fantasies. You both then share each others' lists, and make comparisons, ask questions, and plan on ways that you can fulfill some of these fantasies that are on each others' lists.
I suggest that you turn even the sharing of these fantasies into a game, which can break the tension of admitting to some of your more private fantasies and keep things fun – and even a little giggly and silly! Perhaps being required to give a "fantasy review," in a way similar to doing a movie review, all in good fun and to break the ice for asking questions and further sharing. Then create some games that lead to fulfilling these fantasies - perhaps your own board game concept (personalized to your own fantasies) or some other idea, like a scripted fantasy or role-play scenario.
The important thing is to keep the "game" from feeling like there is a winner and a loser. Both parties should always be winners in any game of intimate encounters! So, any fantasies indulged in should be done with full consent and total willingness by both people to participate. Though I encourage open-mindedness, I don't encourage "guilting" someone into feeling they have an obligation to try something they aren't either interested in or ready for.
Role-play games can be played "for serious" or, for the best, balanced approach, mixed with permission to giggle, make funny remarks or teases, and generally have a good time with it. Even playing out a "dungeon" role-play fantasy can still have this quality of lightheartedness to it, and I recommend it! Come up with some scenarios, but don't play like it has to come out "perfect" every time - leave room for silliness and even for innovation and playful experimentation. Allow things to develop organically. As far as I can tell, all "organic" entities have some form of play! So, keep things cuddly, fun and, well, playful!
Nobody can be forced to grow and expand - it happens all by itself when the freedom to play is exercised liberally! So take advantage of that simple fact and take your sex life to the next level with playfulness, giggles, and loving laughter. Have fun!