I know reading that title, you're probably thinking to yourself, "Wait, What!?!".
Truth be told though, if you have not heard of all the awesome things you can actually do with a male masturbator, I'm here to inform you of what you've been missing. Besides being an incredible toy for the male enjoyment, you can use this as a couples toy as well. Unfortunately it doesn't offer a female partner any actual physical pleasure, but it does offer her the emotional pleasure of knowing that she was able to add to her male partner's enjoyment in a way that she may not have been able to do before.
The hand-job - Being a female myself, I know first hand how difficult it can be to pleasure your partner with only hands-on contact. I mean, men grow up with their penis so they know the extract strokes and rotations it takes to get them aroused and going. Us females, on the other hand, don't really have the "quality time" they have had with their penis, so while they seem to enjoy it (and probably are) sometimes hand-on-hand combat just is not that amazing for them.
Hence the male masturbator.
It is designed to have a tighter more snug feel, and to fit around those curves that females don't generally know how to grip. So just because it's a masturbator does not mean that YOU can't masturbate him. Taking the work out of him doing it added to this new awesome tight snug sensation will definitely get him to the point you need him to be at! Plus it's fun from the woman's perspective because she can watch and also see the sensations that she is sending through her partner.
I would not recommended doing this for a long extended period of time given that it is designed to help bring the male to an orgasm (let's wait on that for a bit!), but throwing it in as a fun little fore-play will get him aroused and up for the real action with YOU. A great masturbator to try this with is the Climax Gems Aquamarine Hand Job Stroker. It has great notches and ridges, and you can see through it, so both you and your partner can enjoy the show. Of course, if you decide to try this, make sure that you are also using a lubricant with it. That way there is a very pleasurable friction between the penis and the male masturbator. One of the best lubes for this is System JO H2O Anal Warming. I recommended the anal because of its thicker consistency, and the warming just to add that extra bit of sensation. Other great lubes include the Maximus Lubricant, Gun Oil H2O Lubricant or their Gun Oil Gel. (These last two contain no oil - it's just their name!)
Oral Sex. Now I know you're thinking, "OK, I could see how using the masturbator on him would be nice, but oral sex, what?!" So with what you already know about the male masturbator, think of how it could benefit oral sex... uh, got it?
OK, I'll explain. From a male's perspective (and I asked around my male friends to confirm this fact), the best oral comes from being able to completely put the penis in one's mouth, and to give a sucking sensation around the base of the shaft. Sounds simple, right? WRONG! More than 50% of women cannot even put half of the penis's length in their mouth, rather less all of it.
This is where that trusty male masturbator comes into play. Now, for this to work properly you do have to have a certain type of male masturbator. You need one that is about 4-6 inches, a very squishy material, and one where the penis is able to go through one end and out the other. A few really good masturbators for this are the 69 Ego Stroker Cyberskin, Palm Pal Mouth, Head Honcho & My Cocoa Stroker. As previously stated when using a masturbator, a lubricant should be used as well.
Now that you have everything you need to try this, here's how it works. Start by giving him a little handjob action using the masturbator. Once you're ready to start performing oral, keep the masturbator around the base of the shaft. As you start to perform oral, gradually allow your hand to continue the handjob motion. You're essentially performing oral and a hand job at the same time, but since you are using the male masturbator instead of an actual hand, and you're performing the oral as well, it gives the sensation that you are in fact only performing one duty, and that's oral (of the "deep throat" variety!)
The male masturbator gives the feel of you going all the way down to the base with your lips "deep throat" style, and performing some love there, while you are actually giving your oral attentions around the head, or wherever you can go, performing love there.
I have had multiple guy friends tell me that since they followed my recommendations and shared this with their partners, they will never receive oral the same way again. TRUST ME ON THIS! The sensation of your oral attention and the masturbator being combined is a remarkable feeling for your male partner.
As well as being able to satisfy him, you also get the satisfaction of knowing that even though you may not ever be able to go all the way down and say hello to the base area personally, you are still giving him the same sensation, and for that he will be thankful.
Now with all this useful information you've newly gathered, stop by to get a male masturbator and make tonight an experience that you will both remember!