Review: Fifty Shades of Grey Lubes and Body Care

Geared for those who want to explore light bondage, the Fifty Shades product line offers items Christian and Ana used in the books along with a selection of lubricants and body-care products. While there are a few items I don’t think are as great at they should be, overall it’s a well-rounded product line of beginner-level, quality products.

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Floggers versus Paddles, Crops & Slappers

I often wonder why people try to use a flogger on people’s butts. It is very hard to do, especially if the person is standing. That’s BDSM the hard way! I say: flog backs; paddle bottoms; use slappers, crops and other implements everywhere else. Everyone concerned will be saying, “How can we lose with the system we use!”

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De Facto Dominants

Opinion piece: Submissives and masochists in BDSM are just as worthy to be treated with respect as are dominants and sadists. There are no de-facto Dominants. Yet, in the scene, dominants often expect all submissives to act as if they had actually already accepted them as their dominants. Submissives and dominants, let’s stop this nonsense now.

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Sex Games

Sex games create sexual tension that grows as you play the game. It is that build-up of sexual tension that is guaranteed to explode into passion and some very, very hot sex, and that is what makes playing these games so potent and ultimately rewarding!

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The Endorphin Levels in BDSM

Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the “high” is all about and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone topping another so that they may successfully send their bottom into a very deep endorphin stupor (also known as leaving them in a big puddle of quivering ecstasy)!

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