Review: Fifty Shades of Grey Toys are Great for Beginners

After being pleasantly surprised by the thoughtfulness and high quality of the lubes and body care products in the Fifty Shades of Grey line, I looked forward to reviewing the toys. In a nutshell, a lot of thought went into the discreet packaging, the thorough instructions, and making the toys useful to beginner users.

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Review: Fifty Shades of Grey Lubes and Body Care

Geared for those who want to explore light bondage, the Fifty Shades product line offers items Christian and Ana used in the books along with a selection of lubricants and body-care products. While there are a few items I don’t think are as great at they should be, overall it’s a well-rounded product line of beginner-level, quality products.

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Floggers versus Paddles, Crops & Slappers

I often wonder why people try to use a flogger on people’s butts. It is very hard to do, especially if the person is standing. That’s BDSM the hard way! I say: flog backs; paddle bottoms; use slappers, crops and other implements everywhere else. Everyone concerned will be saying, “How can we lose with the system we use!”

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De Facto Dominants

Opinion piece: Submissives and masochists in BDSM are just as worthy to be treated with respect as are dominants and sadists. There are no de-facto Dominants. Yet, in the scene, dominants often expect all submissives to act as if they had actually already accepted them as their dominants. Submissives and dominants, let’s stop this nonsense now.

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