Self-play is an avenue for pleasure, self-discovery, experimentation and learning, and for acting out fantasies your partner might not be willing to share with you yet. It is the safest form of sex. It is also the least expensive, even if you do buy yourself a fancy toy to play with once in a while.
New Submissives Seeking Play Partners – BE CAREFUL! In a fervor to find like-minded people, newcomers may ignore warning signs and get into potentially dangerous situations. This is a mental state commonly referred to in BDSM circles as “sub-frenzy,” and is a very dangerous state to be in. Learn how to protect yourself as you search for a BDSM play partner.
There are lots of options for anal toys and prostate stimulators. Learn what to look for and tip for getting the most out of your favorite anal toys.